As a child, I used to love the animated series of The Mask that used to air on Cartoon Network. There was something about being able to put on a mask and solve every problem that came your way, that fascinated me. Agreed I used to initially be weary of his green colored face.
Today, I understand it isn't that hard to be The Mask. We are all after all wearing masks all the time. Not one, but multiple masks at the same time. The smile, composure, excitement, enthusiasm and even the sadness sometimes, are all masks. The mask fits us so well that sometimes we forget we're wearing a mask. We begin to believe that it is as real as our skin.
So what happens when the mask slips? The mask essentially protects us from others knowing the real 'us'. It protects one from the self. We wear a mask simply because it is easier to deal with things when we have it on. The mask gives you a new identity. It helps you get away while being there. It disconnects you. When this mask slips, you are left exposed and that scares you. You are not used to seeing the real self in the mirror. It frightens to see how weak and vulnerable you are as a person. You hope nobody realizes your mask has slipped. You hope you can gather yourself up. Those who see through your mask will help you hold it in place. They will however, see through the mask irrespective of whether it stays or slips.
We, as humans, come with the default programming of being scared. We are scared of everything that comes our way. We are scared of fellow human beings, animals, birds, the elements, the future, the uncertainty, the possibilities...... And we'd like to believe that these masks keep us oblivious to these fears. Nonetheless, we drop the face because irrespective of how good a swimmer you are, you eventually need to come up for air. It is good to be off the guard for a while, good to be scared, good to put yourself through it all because eventually we'll get back to being the person we'd like ourselves and others believe we are!
"He wears a mask, and his face grows to fit it" - George Orwell